Why did I always let him come back in my life?There could be several reasons for this, doing some deep healing work often reveals this answer. If you knew it ...

Why Did I Always Let Him Come Back?

Why would a narcissist commit suicide? He has threatened to kill himself so many times, and sometimes I think he is really going to do it! There could be a ...

Why Would Narc Commit Suicide?

Perhaps because you still have a heart, empathy, and compassion. Narcissists did not choose the disorder, and what an empty life to live. When this becomes unhealthy is when we ...

I Don’t Love Him But Why Do I Feel Pity For Him?

Why are some people saying that “narcissistic abuse” doesn’t exist? Why do they say that is only “meant to condemn and stigmatize people with NPD”? Sounds like gaslighting, doesn’t it? ...

Why Do People Say Narcissistic Abuse Doesn’t Exist?

The biggest problem is narcissists are enabled. We have to stop enabling them and start holding them accountable. Many narcissistic behaviors that are destructive are rewarded in relationships and society. ...

How can we help narcissists?

Is there a way we can learn how to “handle” them? They do have a good side also, the side making us believe they are what we want.  The good ...

How do you handle a narcissist?

This is a popular question. In short, it’s highly unlikely. It’s hard for anyone to make long-term changes in their life, but this disorder makes it beyond challenging. I’ve heard ...

Can narcissists heal?

My mother is extremely abusive. She is older and needs caretaking, but I’m struggling emotionally. She is able to go to a nursing home, but that makes me feel terrible ...

Struggle Emotionally With Older Abusive Parent Who Needs Caretaking

Telling a survivor they need to forgive their abuser can be triggering. Telling a survivor they must forgive in order to heal can be paralyzing to some. They take their ...

“Forgive Your Abuser” Can Be Triggering

My ex-husband is a narcissistic, abusive and cruel man. He did the unthinkable and nobody will ever believe me. Will he ever be punished for his actions against me? The ...

Will Abusive Narcissists Be Punished?